Temple B'nai Sholem is an independent Synagogue following to the tenets of Conservative Judaism. Our small St. Joseph, Missouri congregation is like a family, welcoming guests and strangers to share in the joys of Shabbat and the unique heritage of Judaism.

Lay leadership continues to provide for the religious needs of the congregation with members and a lay cantor leading regular Friday night services. Read our history to see how we've survived for over 40 years with and without a Rabbi.

B'nai Sholem offers a relaxed, family atmosphere that encourages all members to become involved in whatever manner they are able. As we adjust to the changing needs of our congregation, Shabbat services are being held every Friday night at 7:30PM at Vintage Gardens, 3310 NE Woodbine Rd. Following services everyone has a chance to socialize as we begin our Sabbath weekend.

Chapel In addition to our main sanctuary with seating for 300, our facility also offers seating for 45 in the chapel, a 2000 sq ft social hall with a full kitchen, and several classrooms and meeting rooms. Convenient curbside parking is available in addition to safe off-street parking in our adjoining paved parking lot. View our annual bulletin here or as a pdf.



Coming Together

The experiment we began in March alternating Sabbath services and locations with Temple Adath Joseph has been well-received and will continue through the month of April. Following the Community Passover Seder on April 3, we alternate Friday night service locations every 2 weeks. The starting time will remain at 6PM with an opportunity to go out to dinner together following services. We welcome guests regardless of which location is holding services. View Temple Adath Joseph's Facebook page along with photos from the 2015 Community Seder

The schedule for the month is at Temple Adath Joseph (17th and Felix St) on April 3rd.

We will hold services at The Shul - Temple Bnai Sholem - on April 10th and 17th.

and we will return to Temple Adath Joseph on April 24th, with services lead by Rabbi Linda Steigman, and on May 1st.



tree Read more about Counting the Omer below. Or for some fun check out this website to Count the Homer

Tu B'Shevat

tree Tu'B'Shevat is celebrated annually as the New Year for Trees (which happen to have a special value in Israel), and begins on Tuesday evening, February 3rd. A special Seder dinner (Seder means order) is often held celebrating the 3 types of fruits in a particular order: 1) Fruit with an inedible outside and a totally edible inside such as coconut, pomegranate, and almonds. 2) Fruit with an inedible pit such as apricots, nectarines, and olives. 3) Fruits that are completely edible such as figs and berries. Special attention is paid to the 7 species found in Israel: Wheat, Barley, Grapes, Figs, Pomegranates, Olives and Dates. It is recognized for its ecological aspects (especially in Israel) and celebrated as Arbor Day when trees are planted.


tree Purim begins on Wednesday evening, March 4th. As told in the Book of Esther, Purim commemorates a major victory over anti-semitism, oppression, and genocide. It is a festive celebration of food, drink, dance and costumes, culminating in the retelling of the story by reading the Megillah, the scroll version of the book of Esther, and great noisemaking as the name of the story's villain is read (to blot it out). A special service and dinner are held at the Shul to enable all to observe the primary commandment related to Purim: to hear the reading of the book of Esther.


torahPassover (Pesach) begins with the ritual Seder Friday evening, April 3rd. Temple Adath Joseph will host a community-wide Seder on April 3rd for those who wish to observe the first night as a community rather than just with family. This holyday period (lasting 8 days), celebrates the salvation and Exodus of the Jewish people from Egypt after 400 years of slavery. The well-known story behind the holiday is related in Chapters 1-15 in the Book of Exodus. Families celebrate the holiday with a ritualistic festive meal (seder) retelling the Exodus story using symbolic foods. Most notably, the eating and even ownership of bread and grain products, as well as leavening agents, is prohibited. This commemorates the rush of the Jews leaving Egypt that prevented their bread from rising. As a result we eat specially prepared matzah strictly observed to prevent the leavening process from beginning. Symbolically, we suffer as our ancestors did and remove the rising of pride or arrogance within ourselves. For more information visit Judaism 101.

Count the Omer

barley The period between Passover and Shavuot is referred to as the Counting of the Omer. In the Torah we are commanded to count the days between Passover and Shavuot by using the method referred to in the days of The Temple that represents the common measurement of a grain offering -- an omer. Beginning on the second day of Passover an omer of barley was cut down and brought to The Temple as an offering. We continue counting in modern times as a link between Pesach, our liberation from physical bondage, to when we receive the Torah on Shavuot, our liberation from spiritual bondage. "You shall count from the eve of the second day of Pesach (April 2nd), when an omer of grain is to be brought as an offering, seven complete weeks. The day after the seventh week of your counting will make fifty days, and you shall present a new meal offering to God (Leviticus 23:15-16).

Lag b'Omer

fire The 33rd day of the Counting of the Omer (beginning Wednesday evening May 6th) is a minor day of celebration for several events that are historically attributed to that day: During the time of Rabbi Akiva, a plague that killed 24,000 of his students ended; It is the anniversary of the death of Rabbi Shimon Bar Yochai, founder of the Zohar (books of Jewish Mysticism) who revealed its greatest secrets the day he died; It also marks the temporary victory of Simon bar Kokhba's men over the Romans and becoming a symbol that emphasizes the struggle for national liberation and freedom. This day of celebration is often marked by bonfires (for the light of bar Yochai's mystic teachings), and use of bow and arrow (commemorating the midrashic teaching that no rainbow was seen during Bar Yochai's lifetime).


tablets Shavuot begins on Saturday evening,May 23rd. Biblically referred to as the Festival of Weeks (Pentacost in Christian religions), the Festival of Reaping, the Day of First Fruits, and is considered the day of the receiving of the Torah. This two-day holiday officially concludes the Passover season that began 50 days prior and was linked to this moment by the Counting of the Omer. Traditionally this day is celebrated as if all Jews were present at the receiving of the Torah at Sinai. It is also commemorative of those who have converted (the book of Ruth is read) in recognition of their modern-day acceptance of Torah. Dairy foods are traditionally consumed since until the Torah, there were no laws for the proper slaughtering of animals. Another explanation is attributed to King Solomon who portrayed the Torah as "honey and milk are under your tongue" (Song of Songs 4:11). Yizkor is observed on the second day of Shavuot.



LOCATION ALERT! Starting in January of 2015 we returned to Bnai Sholem as our regular location for Friday Night Shabbat services. Our change of venue to Vintage Gardens was a big hit, but with no members currently residing there, it's time to come home to our regular location at Bnai Sholem. With winter upon us it is always possible that we may find it necessary to cancel our Shabbat service due to bad weather (cold, ice, snow), the dangers of travel, and otherwise lack of attendance. If you are planning on visiting us call 248-4248 to let us know your plans and we can verify services are being held. We always try to send out a text notice and prominently put a notice at the top of this page as soon as we know there are changes in the schedule. YOU CAN ALSO CHECK THE LEFT PANEL FOR NOTICES OF LATE CHANGES.

We invite you to join us and enjoy the family spirit of Judaism at Temple B'nai Sholem throughout the year. There is plenty of available seating for Shabbat. For a full listing of scheduled service times, see our activities page or leader schedule.


Special Message

Bob Ott President Bob Ott - Following a difficult Winter with the loss of some of our members, Bnai Sholem, Temple Adath Joseph, and the Jewish community are experiencing the rebirth of Spring as we celebrate the Sabbath together by alternating service locations and styles every couple of weeks. What began in March will continue through the month of April and be re-evaluated in May. Together we are finding that we have more in common than there are differences -- and we are confident that we can overcome our differences.


Shabbat Schedule January through July 2015

Vice Pres. Steve Rosenak -
Leaders and volunteers for the months of January through July, are listed below. If you would like to be the leader of a Friday night service or just present a guest sermon contact Shul Vice President, Steve Rosenak (816-646-1101). The sisterhood can always use additional help preparing and serving for the weekly Oneg following Friday night's service, so feel free to contact one of this month's volunteers to see what is needed, to be added to the regular list, or just pitch in if the mood moves you.
  • January Circle: Rose Mazvinsky, Bernice Day, Kismet Eveloff, Marsha Rosenthal, Linda Kozminski, Grace Day
  • Jan. 2, Shabbata; leader - Sherrie Ott; Cantor - Bob Ott
  • Jan. 9, Shabbat: Leader - Open; Cantor - Bob Ott
  • Jan. 16, Shabbat: Leader - Steve Rosenak; Cantor - Bob Ott
  • Jan. 23, Shabbat: Leader - Marsha Conant: Cantor - Bob Ott
  • Jan. 30, Shabbat: Leader - Julie Miller; Cantor -Bob Ott

  • February Circle: Sherrie Ott, Dorathea Polsky, Marsha Conant, Elaine Zidell
  • Feb. 6, Shabbat: Leader - Bob Ott; Cantor - Bob Ott
  • Feb. 13, Shabbat: Leader - Open; Cantor - Bob Ott
  • Feb. 20, Shabbat: Leader - Sherrie Ott; Cantor - Bob Ott
  • Feb. 27, Shabbat: Leader - Open; Cantor - Bob Ott

  • March Leaders
  • Mar. 6, 6PM at Temple Adath Joseph
  • Mar. 13, 6PM at Temple Adath Joseph
  • Mar. 20, 6PM at Temple Adath Joseph: Leader - Nadine Smith; Cantor - Bob Ott
  • Mar. 27, 6PM Shabbat: Leader - Sherrie Ott: Cantor - Bob Ott

  • April Leaders
  • April 3, 6PM Passover at Adath Joseph - COMMUNITY SEDER
  • April 10, 6PM Shabbat: Leader - Bob Ott; Cantor - Bob Ott
  • April 17, 6PM Shabbat: Leader - Open; Cantor - Bob Ott
  • April 24, 6PM at Temple Adath Joseph

  • May Circle: Sherrie Ott, Dorathea Polsky, Marsha Conant, Elaine Zidell
  • May 1, 6PM at Temple Adath Joseph
  • May 8, Shabbat: Leader - Steve Rosenak; Cantor - Bob Ott
  • May 15, Shabbat: Leader - Anna Hill; Cantor - Bob Ott
  • May 22, Memorial Day weekend: NO SERVICES
  • May 29, Leader - Marsha Conant; Cantor - Bob Ott

  • June Circle: Julie Miller, Beverly Cohen, Carol Housh, Sandy Rosenak, Marcia Powell, Harriet Smolly
  • June 5, Shabbat: Leader - Julie Miller; Cantor - Bob Ott
  • June 12, Shabbat: Leader - Bob Ott; Cantor - Bob Ott
  • June 19, Shabbat: Leader - Open; Cantor - Bob Ott
  • June 26, Shabbat: Leader - Sherrie Ott; Cantor - Bob Ott

  • July Circle: Rose Mazvinsky, Bernice Day, Kismet Eveloff, Marsha Rosenthal, Linda Kozminski, Grace Day
  • July 3, Independence Day Weekend: NO SERVICES
  • July 10, Shabbat: Leader - Open; Cantor - Bob Ott
  • July 17, Shabbat: Leader - Steve Rosenak; Cantor - Bob Ott
  • July 24, Shabbat: Leader - Anna Hill; Cantor - Bob Ott
  • July 31, Shabbat: Leader - Marsha Conant; Cantor - Bob Ott